14 flirting tips from women to awkward guys
The art of flirting is something that can be only mastered with time. It demands the utmost finesse and in the case of guys it inevitably comes in the priorities. Because honey, girls, even the ones who suck at flirting, can flutter their eyes, smile in self-consciousness and BAM! You guys are floored. But aha! The same privilege doesn’t extend to you.
Here the most thwarted guys are the awkward guys- who’re either new to flirting, too shy, etc. Well, to put it simply, they don’t know how to flirt. Oh! Don’t feel miserable. We bring you flirting tips on how to woo by the very subject of your adoration- women.
So TA-DA! Let’s now explore what makes her take an interest in you, what makes her tick, 15 flirting tips to the awkward guys everywhere:
The ability to talk
In the current trend of Tinder and Whatsapp, the ability to keep a conversation in person, alive, proves to be a difficult feat. Let her know that you’re as apt in having a smart conversation as you were in sending those cheesy messages.This is one of the most important flirting tips.
Don’t sit there like a doofus, staring at the floor. She is not Medusa, looking into her eyes won’t change you into stone!
Maintaining eye contact would imply that you’re actually listening, and her voice is not just a buzz in the air for you.
Make her smile
Not saying to dress like a clown here. But it would earn you some major brownie points if you get her to smile. Laugh? Good going buddy!
A little praise will add that extra spice to your persona. Don’t go over the top with it, try giving genuine compliments, after all, you’re attracted to her for a reason.
Be witty but confident
Keep the broody and dark comebacks at bay. Nice to show your wits but not your snarky attitude.
Another eye-contact trick
Say you’re sitting in a room full of people, and she catches you looking at her. Hold her stare for a moment and smile. Not the creepy serial killer smile, a light, shy smile at being caught at looking at her.
Be a sport and take it without any drama if a girl rejects your approaches. Don’t take it personally.
Avoid being cocky
Being over-confident, arrogant in your approach won’t help you. Tone down you attitude a bit.
Don’t be lame, accept the challenge
Not asking you to initiate a full blown argument but when a girl challenges you in any way (it may be on any topic), she is putting the ball in your court. Don’t back out; now everything depends on your reaction.
Don’t try to dominate the conversation
Listen to her. It does not mean you sit mute throughout the conversation. Just don’t cut her mid-sentence, don’t appear as if what she has to say has no importance whatsoever.
DO NOT “scan” her with your eyes
Don’t fixate your stare on eh, certain parts of her body because that is creepy as hell and no that does not go unnoticed by her.
When is she flirting with you?
If she laughs at the lamest of your jokes, if she is the one looking at you across that room when you look up, then there is a chance she likes you or at least is interested.
Flirt with the right person
Practice makes perfect, but it does not right to flirt with a person, giving them fake signs that you’re interested in the long haul. They may take things too seriously, while you were just “playful.”
Jump from the “friend zone.”
Many guys put themselves in the friend zone themselves by assuming that she considers them as just a friend. The fact that she hangs out with you even at the shittiest place is a HUGE sign of her interest in you.