6. You actually had a good time.
Of course, break-ups suck but don’t regret it. You have learnt your lessons. The pain must have been tough to bear, but you had a fair share of a good time too, in the relationship. Those butterflies you had in your stomach and those sweet little moments- they weren’t completely waste. At least it’s better than not being in a relationship ever.
7. You have time for yourself now.
Break-ups create a void but it is up to you if you want to cry over it all along or get over it and finally devote some time to yourself. Finally, you have time to re-connect with yourself and engage in activities that make you happy. Rediscover your hobbies, hang out with your friends, take a vacation, visit your parents- do things you have been waiting to do for long.
8. Being single can be fun too.
Being single has its own perks too. Nothing holding you back, you may finally have some freedom. Barring the liberal ones, some people seem to feed on the blood of their partners’. But no more of that mental torture, you may have some peace now.
So yes, it is really okay to be sad about your break-up but don’t ever let it overpower you. Let time pass and it will heal everything. And sooner or later, you will find someone who will love you and appreciate you for what you are. The best things come to you when you least expect them. Till then, have a great time on your own.
